Fight back , stop doubting!

 Hello lovely people, welcome back and we hope all is well.

Last time we talked about our experience launching our product , but what most people don't know is that there were a lot of moments of doubt we encountered ,  that's why today i want to share with you what helped me stop doubting myself in the middle of the project creation process. The most doubting thought I encountered was, "Am I capable of taking on the responsibilities that will be given to me?"  and the answer was that I had to keep going and figure it out by myself . 

 Well, I want this to be clear before I get into today's conversation that I won't be telling you a magical way to stop doubting yourself forever, that would be lying to you because we will have these moments sometimes, what I want you to pick out of today's article is how not to let a temporary moment to become your permanent identity. 

We need to stop allowing something that we are meant to go through for a moment to become the place where we get stuck in. 

              Why are we talking about this first?

  Well, the answer is, self-doubt kills more dreams than failure ever! It's like a virus that kills people's dreams and unfortunately there is no vaccine against this virus.  But we can say that there is a treatment that can manage this virus so as not to interfere with our dreams anymore.

                   What is this treatment?

  Before I explain further, I want to put this disclaimer to let you know that I will share what works for me to handle my moment of doubt which means it should not work for you 100%,  but it will work to show you that you too can handle it.

  -The first thing is that I'm still expecting it, I don't plan, I just know that someday I'll have to face it, and it makes me feel mentally ready to know how to act on it.  I'm not surprised when I have these moments, I just understand that I have feelings and that I can let my faith / beliefs take over and help me see a way to get through them but not stay there. 

  -When I work on my dreams, I make sure I don't get attached to the job / title or to people or things… but only to my mission.  "Is it good to determine your mission when you have a dream".

  My mission in everything I do is to bring forth the glory of God, so when I start to doubt myself I remember my mission and it reminds me that I am not alone in it all.  I remember that he called me to do this because I can do it and of course the confidence of God is always at my disposal.

These are my two ways I deal with my 'self-doubt' moments, hope this helps someone see that there is a way to deal with it and that it is possible to do what you are called to be, even doubt does not have much power to stop your greatness.

  In closing here, I would like to know what are your tools, tips that help you deal with moments of doubt .

  Please share the comments and let's build on each other.

  With great, great love

  Igicaniro